Monday, June 12, 2006

Time...

Time used to be so strict, so tight, back in KL, when life was such a hasty rush everyday.

Time was almost a luxury, hardly having the privileged to be enjoyed slowly.

Time didnt permit me to lie back and read a book every night, as I would be "oh-so-tired and exhausted" at the end of each day.

Time was spent mostly on the road, travelling between the home and the work place, often caught in the snail-paced traffic jams. If it rained that evening, that's the end of your evening!

Time was also used mainly to work in the office till the sun has set far below the horizon before finally starting the long journey home.

Time always ran short on weekends...Saturdays whizzed by as the sun would be blazing through the late afternoon sky by time I got off work.

Time seemed even shorter on the weekends which I have to spend two hours driving on the North-South highway to get back to my hometown. By the time I got home, the sun was ready to set in a few hours time.

Time is almost unfair to me on Sundays, when I have to make my way back to KL in the evenings.

But now...

Time seems to treat me more gently and generously in this little town of Miri.

Time seems to stretch longer here, as the sun rises up earlier and sets earlier each day, so we all start the day earlier too.

Time is not wasted on the road for travelling, as most destinations are reachable within 15 minutes.

Time permits me to have extra hours each night, so I can read myself to wonderful dreams with my fiction books.

Time lets me go for evening jogs in parks, and serene walks in lush greenery or by the tanned sandy beaches.

Time gives me the opportunity to have meals, or go watch movies, or explore the colourful "pasar malam" with new friends found. (Of course, it would be just divine if I could have all these AND have my family and old friends around here with me too but then...). As the saying goes, "you'll need to let go of some things to make room for new, better things to come along".

Time lets me savour life here better, promising a better quality of life.

Time...however, only makes up 24-hours of each day wherever you may be...and each day passes by quickly all the same.

(I turned a year older recently, and realise that I've been here for 1 full month...already!)

Time...can you slow down? Let your grains of time slide down the hour glass just a little more leisurely?

*Here's a lovely piece I'd like to share*
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Author - Dr. David L. Weatherford
Slow Dance

Have you ever watched kids
On a merry-go-round?
Or listened to the rain
Slapping on the ground?
Ever followed a butterfly's erratic flight?
Or gazed at the sun into the fading night?
You better slow down.
Don't dance so fast.
Time is short.
The music won't last.

Do you run through each day
On the fly?
When you ask "How are you?"
Do you hear the reply?
When the day is done,
Do you lie in your bed
With the next hundred chores
Running through your head?
You'd better slow down.
Don't dance so fast.
Time is short.
The music won't last.

Ever told your child,
We'll do it tomorrow?
And in your haste,
Not see his sorrow?
Ever lost touch,
Let a good friendship die
'Cause you never had time
To call and say "Hi"?
You'd better slow down.
Don't dance so fast.
Time is short.
The music won't last.

When you run so fast to get somewhere
You miss half the fun of getting there.
When you worry and hurry through your day,
It is like an unopened gift....
Thrown away.
Life is not a race.
Do take it slower
Hear the music
Before the song is over.
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9 comments:

Biow said...

i was telling EM that mabbe we shd move there! it's also very hectic here.. :(

Phoenix Heart said...

Biow,

can u give up the "city" lifestyle? Especially EM who grew up in Spore & nvr lived elsewhere?

Spot said...

Heh. I slowed down ages ago. Now brain like porridge when have to work it. But at least boleh pakai lagi lah.

The only person who I believe can really slow down in the purest form (give up a fast paced career and say, be a farmer who enjoys isolation) is Franck. :)

Mia said...

I say... dunno whether can give up the joys of being able to browse to thru a bookstore full of books, to be able to see my family in 2 hours, to be able to see big screen movies, to be to buy peppermint leaves instead of mint leaves.... alamak... so citified already!!

Franck sud move back and have a vineyard.... nice!

Phoenix Heart said...

Ame,

But u are mistaken, there's all that in here in miri (which has a "city" status for those who don't already know) & more.

there are large bookstores here like MPH (abt half the size of the midvalley one, quite big) & other big bookstores, u can still get home in 2 hrs (of flight, not drive), there is 1 cineplex (not theatre, mind u) here with 6 cinemas to choose from, and there are not only peppermint leaves but also lots of fresh pepper!

So, u are not gonna miss much, hahaha...except the traffic jams & toll, coz there are none here :)

Debz said...

i wonder if miri is much better than dunedin?

i enjoyed the small city there for the first 3 years but by my 4th year onwards, i was so sick of the small town attitudes of the people there, their laidbackness, the everybody knows everybody in the community, the 'let's take it easy, why need to rush attitude'.

i guess i was still young then and wanted more excitement in life. i ran back to kl as quickly as i could.

Phoenix Heart said...

Debz,

the good thing abt here is that, abt 50% of the ppl in Shell are from elsewhere i.e. peninsula & other countries, they probably make up abt 30% of miri population.

so there is a mixture of culture & concepts. there is the "small town" culture of being warm & friendly to most ppl around you in town, and yet there is the competitive edge which is very evident here in Shell work attitude. So I think there's a balance.

NZ, well, I dont mind retiring or going for a holiday there, but if wanna live there, it has to be Auckland at least.

Debz said...

mmm.... don't mind Auckland either.

Mia said...

Auckland.. no way... really freezing my butt off... but if I had one of them Japanese toilet shower seats.. I may consider... ke ke

Maybe I would like Miri... after what you said.. huh Miri is a city... like PJ... ka ka

The country life of wide open spaces... can drool or what!! Debz and FS... I remember the vast spaces of NZ, very very lovely...